Whats your take?

What is this term oboho?  What makes you an oboho?   The way you dress, the way you talk or just your behaviour. I have for a long time now been branded an 'oboho'.  I think its just of the music I listen to and the way I act considered 'unladylike'.  As far as am concerned this is just bullshit considered that the people who are in our company don't mind it.  If somethings so bad and you can't stand it, isn't it better to walk away from it?  Am just yet to find out really the true definition of an oboho. 

meeting your prospective in-laws

Have you ever sat down with your sweetheart and imagined meeting his/her family especially the parents?  Well I was cursed never to be liked by in-laws and in my past relationships I have always refused to meet my better half's parents especially the MOTHER.  We all know how it goes with mums-in-law.  Am just curious to know how many people have had positive experiences with them and/or dads-in-law.  This is the part of the relationship I dread.  How soon is soon to meet your partner's parents?  Should you run for the hills when asked to meet them?  I believe this means you are ready to take your partner as a lifetime partner so you should be totally sure you want this person to be your lifetime shadow.

Friday 13th.....a scare he couldn't forget!!!!!

Its Saturday 14th I wake up with a nasty hangover and he takes some pain killers and sits down to have a rest as he thinks of what heavy breakfast he can take to take care of the hangover. The decision is made; 4 eggs, coffee and a full loaf of bread. He laughs himself since this meal has been on his menu for the past four days or so….....He gets the surprise of his life when he realizes that he has only coins in his trouser pocket and nothing in his wallet, WTF! He tries to recall where he might have put the money and then it hits him… BANG! ……

Its Friday the thirteenth and he receives a call from his pal Anthony who is in need of a soft loan of kshs. 7,000. He tells him no problem since he is about to leave for work and asks him to meet him at the local pub near his home.  He agrees and tells him that he has to pass to the hospital to check on his girlfriend so he will be a few hours late. He leaves work and goes to the ATM machine and this is where all hell broke loose.  There was this fine lady who smiled and waved at him as he left the ATM.  It seemed a little unusual but he smiled and gave her the nod. She walked to him and says, “hi Paul?” He was shocked she new his name and she notices and reminds him where they met.


Paul asks her to accompany him for coffee as she waits for her friends who she was waiting for. They decide to do it at a pub since he needed to have a smoke as well. They had their coffee and small talk then her friends call her and told her that they will be half an hour late.  Raul was happy because he had extra time with her so he bought a few drinks and time flew as he enjoyed his cold Tusker.   had our coffee and a small chat. Her friends called her and told her that they will be late for another 30 minutes.   Her friends arrived and introduced him as her new boyfriend and he played along. She then just kissed him out of the blue!!! Gosh the kiss was hot! That’s when he decided to buy a round to both of her friends also, just to be polite, before he left to meet Anthony.

To his dismay he was there for three hours just throwing rounds of drinks and she kept kissing him and asking her to buy another round before he left. What surprised him more is that after a while more of her friends.  The girl kept kissing him and telling him to buy a last round of drinks before he left and oh yes he did. He was shocked that he had spent more than twelve thousand, all because of a hot chick who he even barely knew and her ever growing friends. 

Men need to syle up

My girlfriend seems to be interested in this guy who I seriously hate.  My judgment is always to the mark if it has to do with other relationships of course but she refuses to take my advice.  Back to the subject matter, it does not cost you to be a gentleman if at all you are indeed interested in a woman.  The woman's friends should of course be your number one priority (if you want to be accepted in the 'circle').  You should go out of your way to impress the other ladies and of course not forgetting your target.  This guy upset me madly because if a lady is out with her friends and you find them wherever it is they are, its courtesy to say hi to the ladies and most importantly offer the ladies drinks.  At least one round each will not kill you.  Why am I talking about this?  This has not occurred once or twice but several times and it shows what kind of character you have.  It does not mean also you HAVE TO throw a round of drinks.  It simply means your girlfriends thoughts really matter where you are involved.  Happy hunting men.