Whats your take?

What is this term oboho?  What makes you an oboho?   The way you dress, the way you talk or just your behaviour. I have for a long time now been branded an 'oboho'.  I think its just of the music I listen to and the way I act considered 'unladylike'.  As far as am concerned this is just bullshit considered that the people who are in our company don't mind it.  If somethings so bad and you can't stand it, isn't it better to walk away from it?  Am just yet to find out really the true definition of an oboho.